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And if someone wants to make an issue about your choices? Posit them as outcasts and oddballs. Make THEM be the weird people with weird notions. Use public against them.

Ooh, it sounds so easy. Try "positing" those pumped muscle masses as "outcasts", not so easy now, eh?
This site shows that other people support them. Sometimes, the feeling that someone cares saves lives.

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Don't make sites for bullies.

It isn't intended to. Anybody who actually wastes their time trying to attack such sites are morons and a waste of air.

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What fucking stupid bully searches the internet for "gay people help tube which asks for donations".

What kind of bully doesn't? there are more than enough idiots on the internet who probably would.

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Btw bullies are normal people too. I bet almost everyone on this forum has bullied someone once.

The thing is you can't "stop" bullying. It starts when people are too arrogant against someone else who is different from the rest. As long as we don't kick fat people, black people, muslims, authists, sluts and gays from the world, bullying will exist.

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As a matter of fact, I did that much, Goshen.

Everyone has their weakness. The trick is simple - do NOT stop. Do not show mercy. Do not try to hold the stone behind your back.

Pick the one either most vulnerable or most vocal out of people who think they are better then you. Hand them sound and decisive humiliation. Do NOT stop until they take your place as the beating doll.

Human society is such that in any social environment, there will be an omega - an acceptable target to take out aggravation and annoyance on. Do not be one, and if someone tries to hornshoe you into that role, do whatever you have to to let them have it instead.

And yes, I mean it when I say whatever it takes. If it takes a baseball bat to the kneecaps, so be it.

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I bet almost everyone on this forum has bullied someone once.

That may be. But I think the point of this thread was to take on people who do it regularly rather than a one-off.

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The thing is you can't "stop" bullying. It starts when people are too arrogant against someone else who is different from the rest.


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As long as we don't kick fat people, black people, muslims, authists, sluts and gays from the world, bullying will exist.


We can't "stop" it, as you say, but we're more than capable of preventing it. The same way as we can prevent crime and prevent other things.

Acceptance is also great.

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As a matter of fact, I did that much, Goshen.

Everyone has their weakness. The trick is simple - do NOT stop. Do not show mercy. Do not try to hold the stone behind your back.

Pick the one either most vulnerable or most vocal out of people who think they are better then you. Hand them sound and decisive humiliation. Do NOT stop until they take your place as the beating doll.

It's easy to say so. It will take long till you find that weakness and they will just beat you up if you try to laugh at one of theirs.

Also, I hate when someone spells my name with a capital "g".

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Are you afraid of being beaten? People can sense that just fine. Fear has smell, you know.

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I`m mostly joking about smell of fear, but social cues? They`re there. It`s not exactly hard to tell if someone is afraid of confrontation. And that`s what sets someone up as a victim of bullying.

But when you are the one craving the conflict, welcoming the violence? People tend to steer clear, look for easier target.

Don`t fear the confrontation. Crave it. Rush into it. Will you get beaten? Maybe you will. Maybe you will beat them. Now, cower in fear, and you will be beaten, no question about it.

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I`ve always took the first option. Unbarred, unmitigated violence and cruelty at slightest provocation. Was it easy? Or painless? Not quite. I have my share of scars and aches to show off. And yes, there were times when I got beaten for it. But did it earn me peace and respect? Yes. Yes, it did. Force is one thing people never fail to recognize and pay respects to.

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Lol you really sound like some emo anti-bully hitler trying to give a speech.

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And I think it's bullshit to make a site about bullying. Once again cause nobody looks for such shit, only goshen when he watches the news.

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I bet almost everyone on this forum has bullied someone once.

Nope, at least as far as i remember i didn't.
If you mean counter-bullying bullies, than yes.

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Hm? Fair enough, I suppose. Anyone who`d care for my advice is likely to have already made good use of it. Everyone else... well, you live by your wits in the end, no?

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Erm, yes, I wouldn't like to get beaten. One kid got shot for being gay, and I have a life to live.
Words don't help. Only if you beat one of them (not laugh at him), and beat really hard, so he'd have to go to a hospital, only then would they stop.

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Yeaaa.. let's just use violence against violence..

You'd better go to another school if you don't have a good relation with people on your current school than try to kick the fuck out of them.

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I've never bullied anyone, i mean sometimes me and my mates joke around but we don't take it to heart.

You know why people bully others? they've gone through something so fucked up in life which makes them feel like they have to have power, or be in charge. So then they go around dissing others about the things their actually insecure about themselves.

There was a kid last year who paid out anyone who he didn't like. All he would say to them is shit like "you're gay, you have a small dick" and shit like that. He paid me out quite a bit but i just ignored him and knew that if he did it again i'd fuck him up. A few months later we were in the change rooms, and he kept on bullying until that day. So i went up to him, pulled his pants down infront of everyone in the change rooms and saw his tiny penis.

I fucken laughed so hard, that son of a bitch felt insecure about himself so he goes around paying others out.

True story, just think about it.

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I, for one, am completely against being gay myself, but respect others who are so. Also, surely, bullying in itself should be removed from schools, not just bullying homo-/bi-sexuals? That would be rather unfair, wouldn't it? "Haha, you're not gay! You're not gay!" sounds a bit wierd to me.

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The thing is people bully others as defense, because they are too weak against being bullied themselves;

- One guy is really meager
- Bullies a fat guy

Reason: he doesn't want to be called meager, so he calls others fat.

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Really that's just bullying, in general.

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Plus, gays are just different from others, a lot. Just like nerds, sub-cultures etc. That's why they are easy to bully.

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And the easiest answer is, be strong. What matters most is not the size of dog in the fight, it`s the size of fight in the dog.

Now, I`m not saying "all you need is confidence". That`s not quite enough. A healthy dose of determination is a necessity as well.

Learn how to fight. Learn to revel in confrontation and escalate to it whenever someone encroaches on what`s yours. That`s the natural order of things - establishing dominance.

N.B. - as one grows older, they get access to wider variety of means to assert one`s dominance. Kids only have one thing they can lord over each other - raw strength.

As they get older, popularity comes into play. There`s less of a need in being strong personally if you have a devoted posse to take the fight off you.

But real deal comes when people enter job market. Personal wealth, connections, cunning - it all comes into play. You can be physically deficient and yet bully whole crowds at once - so long as you have the say on their income.

So, get strong. Damage bullies. Take advantage of them and use them for anything you want, whatsoever. It`s fair - they offer themselves as resource as soon as they disrespect your personal boundaries. That makes them fair game.
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